An Abusive Gay Man

(Michigan, United States)

I had a relationship with a wrestler who was undercover. He did not want people to know he was gay. We would always meet my house, and when I would go to his shows, he would hide from me. Yes, hide and act like he did not know who I was but could have sex with me.

His name is MM (ID removed), and we all stay in Michigan. He and his dad run a wrestling company. He has a daughter as well.

Well, one time he hit me in my room when I was talking to him and called him down low. He hit me in my face and chocked me.

MM is his stage name. He has this horrible obsessed baby mother. Lord, she knows he is gay and read me his messages. She would make fake pages and message me. She would wish death on me. Your the one who decided to have a baby with a man you barely knew and taking your anger out on me cause he is having sex with me. First of all this baby mother was so nosy, she used his finger to unlock his iPhone while he was asleep. I mean come on now!

Well, my ex-boyfriend got outed by his former lover (ID removed). After he got outed on Facebook MM would threaten me. He then would get a cover up girlfriend name (ID removed).

His former lover knows he is gay. MM is best friends with her sister (ID removed). I tried to warn her sister that he is gay. What she does she just told him after seeing all the evidence still believed him. ONCE YOUR DUMB ALWAYS DUMB I GUESS.

It ended because I dated him for six months, and I was in the dark. He dated "L" 4 months after me and was showing her off. So I told everyone how he is gay and undercover.

He would verbally abuse me and call me a faggot, tell me I am a gay fag and need to kill myself — all out of anger when we would argue. Which is self-hate just because I am gay and proud does not mean you have to take your self-hate on me.

Well after I outed him, he and his dad jumped me and beat me up. They pulled me out my car while I was driving and beat me! MM is a closeted gay man who uses women as a cover-up. And, he treats men who care about him like shit.